In fact, in resolving to do no harm to others, one can learn a lot about him or her self. If someone or something irritates me, I gripe a lot and in doing so, I process exactly what it is that irritates me. Why did this elicit such a strong emotional reaction in me? What is the root of that reaction? What new information does this tell me about myself and the shape of my soul? Those people and things that irritate me have also initiated leaps and bounds worth of changes in my life's evolution. After I process the information, I put it aside, keep calm, and carry on. Rush Limbaugh has really been putting this exercise to the test lately.
Keeping calm and carrying on is the key to the door of success carried by the second, equally important half of the Rede:
Do what thou Wilt.
The Rede half-quoted is a bird with just one wing. Harming none is half of the equation - doing your Will is the second vital half. After all, stones in the grass harm none, but they also just sit there, providing a home for moss and not much more. We, as human beings, must do more. Our consciousness demands it.
The Charge of the Goddess says, "Keep pure your highest ideal, strive ever toward it." In this case, the word, "Charge," means "To impose a duty, responsibility, or obligation on." This is not a request on Her part. This is a charge. Your life's quest. Your soul's job as it inhabits this flesh.
I've often said that the key to happiness is to figure out what you're supposed to be doing, and do it. Listening to and understanding the goals of your soul is so important to my magical path. Without that, I am a ship in the sea without a compass.
"Do what thou Wilt," reaches much farther than "do whatever you want." As anyone with any life experience knows, doing whatever you want can be very detrimental to your relationships, career, education, and financial situation. What we want at any given time is strongly determined by ego, and ego can be easily manipulated and led astray if not held to the guidance of one's Will. Doing one's Will must not violate the first half of the Rede by doing harm to oneself.
We are constantly inundated with advertising that seeks to define and profit from what we want to do. Those in our social circles also would love to tell us what we want to do. My parents want me to move somewhere closer to them and raise children, my friends want me to take sides with them in their quarrels, and my enemies would love it if I sat down and shut up. Clergy and politicians want me to support their wars and not question their authority. Pop culture wants me to develop anorexia, indulge in a string of bad relationships and spend too much on purses. Advertisers want me to buy their latest product so that I may be truly happy and fulfilled in life.
None of these things are my Will, and all of these things are traps that without the guidance of one's will can cause one's life to stagnate so that whatever your Will is, it's buried under a mountain of irrelevance. There are many in this world who would be happy to sap my energy for themselves and their own purposes. The guidance of my Will protects me from and alerts me to these traps.
I cannot value enough the power I have found in learning my soul's path. I am constantly discerning and clarifying those things that fulfill my heart, mind and spirit in such a way that I do them with a power that I afford to few other things. Aleister Crowley once said, "A man who is doing his True Will has the inertia of the universe to assist him." This is what, you, human seeker, are charged to do - find your Will and do it.
Just don't be a jerk about it.
The Wiccan Rede
By Doreen Valiente
Bide within the Law you must, in perfect love and perfect trust.
Live you must and let to live, fairly take and fairly give.
For tread the circle thrice about to keep unwelcome spirits out.
To bind the spell well every time, let the spell be said in rhyme.
Light of eye and soft of touch, speak you little, listen much.
Honor the old ones in deed and name, let love and light be our guides again.
Deosil go by the waxing moon, chanting out the joyful tune.
Widdershins go when the moon doth wane, and the werewolf howls by the dread wolfsbane.
When the Lady’s moon is new, kiss the hand to Her times two.
When the moon rides at Her peak then your heart’s desire seek.
Heed the north wind’s mighty gale, lock the door and trim the sail.
When the wind blows from the east, expect the new and set the feast.
When the wind comes from the south, love will kiss you on the mouth.
When the wind whispers from the west, all hearts will find peace and rest.
Nine woods in the cauldron go, burn them fast and burn them slow.
Birch in the fire goes to represent what the Lady knows.
Oak in the forest towers with might, in the fire it brings the God’s insight.
Rowan is a tree of power causing life and magick to flower.
Willows at the waterside stand ready to help us to the Summerland.
Hawthorn is burned to purify and to draw faerie to your eye.
Hazel-the tree of wisdom and learning adds its strength to the bright fire burning.
White are the flowers of apple tree that brings us fruits of fertility.
Grapes grow upon the vine giving us both joy and wine.
Fir does mark the evergreen to represent immortality seen.
Elder is the Lady’s tree burn it not or cursed you’ll be.
Four times the major sabbats mark in the light and in the dark.
As the old year starts to wane the new begins, it’s now Samhain.
When the time for Imbolc shows watch for flowers through the snows.
When the wheel begins to turn soon the Beltane fires will burn.
As the wheel turns to Lammas night power is brought to magick rite.
Four times the minor sabbats fall use the sun to mark them all.
When the wheel has turned to Yule light the log the Horned One rules.
In the spring, when night equals day time for Ostara to come our way.
When the sun has reached it’s height time for oak and holly to fight.
Harvesting comes to one and all when the autumn equinox does fall.
Heed the flower, bush, and tree by the Lady blessed you’ll be.
Where the rippling waters go cast a stone, the truth you’ll know.
When you have and hold a need, harken not to others greed.
With a fool no season spend or be counted as his friend.
Merry meet and merry part bright the cheeks and warm the heart.
Mind the Three-fold Laws you should three times bad and three times good.
When misfortune is now wear the star upon your brow.
Be true in love this you must do unless your love is false to you.
These Eight words the Rede fulfill:
An Ye Harm None, Do What Ye Will!